What is a MILITARY Wife?

Hello All, Grace and Peace be to you from JESUS CHRIST our LORD and SAVIOR.

This is for the one I married...the one who has my heart...the one I will follow all the days of my life, the one I will be there for, serving him as the head of my household. I gladly submit to you my darling...you are soooo worth it! GOD bless you!

What is a MILITARY Wife?

They may look different and each is wonderfully unique, but this is what they have in common:

Lots of moving...



Moving far from home.

Moving cars, kids and pets----all riding with... HER of course.

Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house.

Moving curtains that won't fit.

Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.

Moving away from friends, moving toward new friends.

Moving her most important luggage; her trunkful of memories.

Often waiting...

Waiting, waiting, waiting for housing; waiting for orders; waiting for deployment; waiting for reunion; waiting for phones calls; Waiting for the new curtains to arrive; waiting for him to come home for dinner----AGAIN!

They call her 'military dependent', but she knows better.

She can balance a checkbook.

Handle the yard work.

Fix a noisy toilet.

She is intimately familiar with drywall, anchors, and toggle bolts.

She can file the taxes, sell a house, buy a car, or set up a move, all with ONE Power of Attorney.

She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.

Reinvents her career with every PCS; locates a house in the desert, the arctic, or the deep south and learns to call them all 'home'.

She MAKES them all home.

She is fiercely IN-dependent.

Military Wives are somewhat hasty.

They leap into decorating, leadership, volunteering, career alternatives, churches and friendships.

They don't have 15 years to get to know people.

Their roots are short but flexible.

They plant annuals for themselves and Perennials for those who come after them.

Military Wives quickly learn to value each other.

They connect over coffee, rely on the spouse-network, accept offers of friendship and favors, and record addresses in pencil.

Military Wives have a common bond.

The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands, his commitment is unique. He doesn't have a job, he has a 'mission' he can't just decide to quit. He's on-call for his country 24/7 but for you, he's the most unreliable guy in town!

His language is foreign: TDY, PCS, MOS, FOB, ACU, and so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.

She is the long-distance link to keep them informed the glue that holds them together.

A Military Wife has her moments:

She wants to wring his neck, dye his uniform pink, and refuse to move to Siberia...

But... she pulls herself together.

Give her a few days, a travel brochure, a long hot bath, a pledge to the flag, and a wedding picture...

And she goes.

She packs.

She moves.

She follows.


What for?

How come?

You may think it is because she has lost her mind...

But actually, it is because she has lost her heart.

It was stolen from her by a man...

Who puts duty first.

Who longs to deploy.

Who salutes the flag.

And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military husband...

She will remain his Military wife.

Praise GOD for my Military Husband...I will follow you all the days of my life, and I will do whatever GOD calls me to do, and to be the wife HE has created me to be for you.

This is my promise to you my love!


Yes, being a military wife is not easy. But it's worth it!

May 23, 2009 at 11:49 PM  

I'm so happy you stopped by my blog and loved the story about the hummers. I want you to know I was almost a military wife, however it was not to be, but God has blessed me with a wonderful guy who stole my heart 28 yrs ago. We are truly blessed by God to have our other halves...(((hugs)))

May 24, 2009 at 5:24 PM  

I miss military wife. I can't help but smile (with tears flowing down my cheek) while reading this entry.

Must be hard. Must be Grace!

Godbless you sister!

May 28, 2009 at 7:35 AM  

Thank you my sister's! Being a military wife is not easy, but worth it. What a great way to show the husbands how much they are loved, by such support!

I am glad you liked the post!

GOD Bless You!

May 28, 2009 at 8:26 AM  

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